[:en]5 things you shouldn’t say on your proposal[:zh]5個你不應該在求婚時說的話[:]

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1- “Actually I’m not so sure…”

Girls won’t be happy with they hear it. It seems like your haven’t thought it through to spend your life with her. It seems you don’t even know what you want, so how can she happy with what you ask?

 

2- “I thought I would find my perfect match, but I realized…”

As you mention, it means she is not your perfect match, she’s not the one you want to find. Usually when she hears the first irritating sentense, she won’t hear anything afterwards. Remember, every girlfriend wants to be someone’s the one, soulmate, perfect match!

3- “Although my marriage failed before, I’m really serious this time…”

Don’t mention about ex-girlfriend, ex-wife, or anything related to the former relationship. She is the partner you want in the future. Let it go!

 

4- “Look! I propose to you now, are you ok now?”

Sounds like you propose unwillingly eh? Some couples have marriage plans already, so proposal seems just like a play that satisfy your girlfriend. But come on! Every woman wants to see her man’s sincerity! It’s a life-long commitment, how can it be too casual?

 

5- Discuss about the engagement ring

Unless you have a 10 carats diamond ring, or please don’t discuss the size or the price of the ring. It will make her compare the ring with other friends.[:zh]五個你不應該在求婚時說的話

1.「其實我還不肯定……」
女生聽到這句說話後一定不會高興,覺得你根本未考慮清楚是否要跟她共渡一生,自己也不清楚自已想要什麼。

  1. 「曾經我以為會找到我的perfect match,但最後發現……」

言下之意即是說她不是你最想找的人,女方聽到第一句後,即使你之後說什麼也根本聽不進耳。請記著所有女朋友都希望成為你的唯一的soul mate, perfect match。

  1. 「雖然過往曾經經歷婚姻失敗,但這次我是十分認真的。」

切記千萬不要在求婚時提及前度或前妻的任何事,她才是你未來一輩子需要的伴侶,過去的就讓它過去吧。

  1. 「看!我已向你求婚了,你滿意吧!」

這句說話讓人感覺不是出於自願,有些情侶早已有共識計劃未來,所以男方向女方求婚只是為了滿足對方的心願。其實女人希望男人來一個浪漫的求婚只是想看他有多少誠意,畢竟將來要生活一輩子,婚前已經沒有誠意還怎能談將來。

  1. 討論戒指的言論

除非你有10卡鑽戒,否則求婚後不要和未婚妻討論戒指鑽石的大小或價錢等,以便她與身邊的同性作比較。[:]